Are You A Network Marketing Workaholic?
Barry White commented:“Hi Jason as one just starting out in this gig you actually amaze me. Do you not sleep? You have replied to every comment, where do you even get the time to write any articles anyway? You have just shown me how to go about it. Because when you look at all the articles just on ezine articles how was I going write anything that was going to stand out and you just answered the question for me.”
Good question. You know the truth is, sometimes I don’t sleep much, I’m a workaholic through and through. I love writing, marketing, and meeting new people. And I live by the quote: “Work is so much more fun than fun!” I think Noel Coward said that first.
Anyway, to answer Barry’s question:
You caught me red handed.
You caught a workaholic at work.
I’ve been answering comments in between phone calls, writing articles, the “Best of Better Networker E-mails”, and everything else. I’ve even been answering comments before and after supper, first thing in the morning and before I pass out at night too.
Trust me, when this blog was first flooded with comments I didn’t think I could handle it. I debated going the “guru” route and not answering them all… but in all fairness… that wouldn’t do justice to you.
You took time out of your busy day to read this article. Your time is every bit as valuable as mine. So I show respect by replying whenever I can. Although someday, I admit, this might not be possible. Till then, I’ll try.
My Savior
Thankfully Akismet (a little Wordpress plugin) sorts out most of the spam, because I get a lot of comments trying to sell me Viagra and shoes. Not sure how those two go together, but I’m happy I don’t have to deal with them anymore.
I also have a bit of a secret too.
You see, I have a really great team that handles all of the little details at Better Networker. So that frees up a lot more time for me to write articles, and reply to your comments too. It’s a team effort.
So don’t worry, you won’t murder poor ol’ Jason Better with a few more comments. I love hearing what you have to say because it makes it easier to help you (and other network marketers) out.
Plus, I’ve picked up some mad time management skills over the years. Dan Kennedy had a really short book about it that’s worth reading. It was real cheap too, like ten bucks. Only I’m not sure what it was called because I borrowed it from the library. Haven’t had time to buy it, I guess?
Anyhow, I think that’s the real answer.
I work in intense spurts when I plan to work, but I try take time to relax too.
The problem is, “work” is so much fun. I have to keep reminding myself to take time off for friends and family, or the weeks fly by.
Maybe you have the same problem. I remember back in the day, my dishes would pile up because I would be too busy working to notice them at all.
How about you?
Are you a workaholic too?
How do you find balance in your life?
To your success,
Jason The “Better Networker”
The Jason Better Blog

P.S. I have to thank you for taking time out of your busy day to read this. I’m sure you’re busy too. If you want, you can multitask just this once and share this article while you’re on Facebook by clicking the little blue Facebook Share button at the top of this post. I’ll forgive you this time.
44 Comments
Mitcehll Dillman on January 8th, 2010
Good Morning Jason,
You’ve sure had a busy week…Feeling a bit hung over yet, you workaholic you?
You’re really teaching some solid habits to all of us around here, new and old timers alike.
Barry Whites comments were more than on target…I was wondering the same thing.
Thanks for setting the benchmark when it comes to work habits…
Myself, I’ve been known to go non-stop for weeks on end as well. Of course the transition from construction work to computer work has been interesting. 3 months now of 16+ hour days riding this chair has made me realize I can do this.
Like you, I’m having fun. If you find something you love to do for work, you’ll never “work” another day in your life.
You Make it a Great Weekend, and get some rest!
Mitchell Dillman
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 2:27 pm
Mitchell,
The weekend is when the real work
starts!
Less interruptions, more time to play
with work.
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Gary Dean on January 8th, 2010
I can sit down at my computer at 8am and look up and it’s already 2 or 3!
Then, my trusty mutt dog, Rusty, lets me know to take a much needed walk!
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 2:28 pm
Gary,
I know what you mean. Man, this morning
I was typing away… and it was past twelve
before I got off the laptop.
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Jerome Ratliff on January 8th, 2010
Morning J. Great post to end the week.
Yeah – When we are doing something we truly like it’s not so much work, but fun just as you mentioned.
Although, we do all need to take rest some times.
What is truly remarkable about having a business is it’s like your baby. You get to nurture it and raise it up to being a responsible adult.
That’s rewarding and fun!
Have a great weekend.
Jerome Ratliff
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 2:29 pm
Hey Jerome,
I totally agree, but let’s not forget to
remember to be self-employed even in the employ
of others.
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Freda Douglas on January 8th, 2010
I used to be a workaholic until a stroke slowed me down in 1994. My suggestions for you are ‘take time to smell the roses’ and ‘it may be later than you think.’
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 2:31 pm
Freda,
I agree, we should take time to enjoy the
finer things in life too.
I think the greatest blessing I’ve had… is
not having to stress as much as I used to.
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Jessica Jablonski on January 8th, 2010
I would definitely consider myself a workaholic. I think work is so much fun too! I find myself feeling like there is always so much to do. Especially when it comes to the social media world. It’s hard to know the right balance – it seems like there is always more that can be done.
Enjoy your day!
Jessica
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 2:33 pm
Hey Jessica,
I know! There’s always so much to do.
If I didn’t enjoy most of it then life would be lame.
The problem is making sure I take time for family
and friends too…
Have a great day too Jessica.
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Clay Mac on January 8th, 2010
Nice to see you got off the hot seat from a couple of days ago. (Is marketing articles really dead?) Just kidding, you do a whale of a good job and it’s always a pleasure to see whats in store from Jason.
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 2:34 pm
Oh my Clay,
It’s only just begun. Hah.
My cheeks were sizzling then but
I’m sure I’ll get them in hot water again.
And thank you.
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Timothy Willan on January 8th, 2010
Hey Jason! workaholic I was! Not so much anymore
I don’t consider setting at a computer for hours work, Someone said set down at 8:am and look up and it’s 2:pm that’s soooo true, I’m still looking for the income at my computer than I’ll be working, Till than it’s Play!!
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 2:36 pm
Well Timothy,
The problem with that being… when you start
making that income you’ll never be able to leave
that computer at all!
There should be warning labels on these things.
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Rebecca Geiger on January 8th, 2010
Good thing I installed akismet on my blog.. now to get traffic and comments.. I guess that would mean I would have to be disciplined like you and write more often
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 2:38 pm
Rebecca,
Whether you write more often or not. Your posts
always make me smile. I still remember that one
where you made a reference to being slapped in
the face with a fish… gosh what a picture.
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Jessica Jablonski on January 8th, 2010
Hey Jason –
How do you update your photo or avatar? I don’t see any place to register.
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
Hey Jess,
Look up gravatar.
That’s about all I know about that. Honestly,
that’s how I did it before… but for this blog
one of my team mates did it for me.
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Deb Webb on January 8th, 2010
Three kids(not including husband), three dogs, charity involvement and internet/article marketing – these are my hobbies. If I see the world through rose colored glasses I’m sure my readers will see my writing the same way. re. a past, controversial post peoples responses indicated that the internet was getting to be <>. Did nobody teach these people that you find what you’re looking for? If you are looking for good, happy, fun opportunities ALAS you will find them. If you are looking for garbage, well, that can be found too.
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Tommy D on January 8th, 2010
Hi Jason, Happy Friday!
I have to agree on everything you said. I am a part-time network marketer. My full-time position is at least 60+ hours of my week. People ask me,”How do you stay on top of your business? How are you able to produce? How do you even function???” My time management skills stink, but have been improving. I do rely on a Smartphone (my Blackberry curve) and right before Christmas I invested in a Netbook. My last treasure is my iPod Classic that is packed with Personal Development and any CD I purchase, I put it on in, training videos, YouTube and my feeds.
You can combine parts of this article with parts of being overwhelmed. But I am making adjustments now that my wife is becoming more involved with our primary opportunity.
I may overwork myself, but I have learned a lot of valuable information and connected with brilliant networkers. The point is the work you put in may seem like your a nut but the benefit of success, helping someone get started, providing an new lesson to a newbie or even creating a post and then learning something else from someone experienced leaving their opinion as a comment.
That is what I do read, learn, educate, put into action. I just have to work on my blog, its a little messy but coming along. Have a great weekend and thanks again!
Tommy D.
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Michael Cole on January 8th, 2010
Hey Jason,
Great post, can’t say I’m a workaholic but time sure does fly when I’m in the zone.
-Side note for Jessica Jablonski, go to gravatar.com to upload your photo.-
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 3:39 pm
Hey Michael,
Does it ever fly… just got off the phone and I couldn’t
believe that much time disappeared.
And thanks for helping Jess out. I wasn’t sure if that was the
link or not.
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Jay on January 8th, 2010
When you get into this business, you can’t help yourself. There’s always a task or two, or… calling for your undivided attention. It’s all fun, though!
Just when you think you’re done for the day, another something to do pops in your head and up goes the laptop/desktop again. You just can’t talk yourself out of not powering everything back up again.
The time does fly by when you’re movin’ and groovin’ in the zone!
Even if I don’t see me as a workaholic, I’m pretty sure my wife beg to differ.
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 8:27 pm
Evening Jay,
I hear you on the lady thing.
They always think you’re working too much.
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Ilka Flood on January 8th, 2010
Hi Jason,
Am late with my comment today…but, even a workaholic has to take time out to get a hair cut. Especially if I want to look presentable at the business meeting I want to go to in the morning
For me, I can’t distinguish between work and play anymore. It’s all the same. Yes, I do admit, I am a certified workaholic. I am ‘at it’ from when I get up in the morning until I go to bed at night.
I keep telling my boys, find something you’re passionate about and then find a way to make money with it. Of course, I don’t want them to become like their mother
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 8:28 pm
Hey Ilka,
It wasn’t Rebecca cutting your hair was it?
I think when we find our passion… well…
work disappears. Good advice.
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chris owen on January 8th, 2010
Hey Jason,
Personally I think being a workaholic is great. I have been through years of physical therapy after being in an explosion in Iraq.
Sometimes the only thing that keeps me from losing it, trying to deal with the pain, and trying to be a happy loving husband, and daddy to a 3 and 4 year old… I just bury myself in what I call “learn mode”. When I get to the point where I can’t even fake feeling okay, I get as deep into thought as I can. And the keys fly.
If I didn’t have work to keep me busy, I don’t know what I would do. Of course my wife still makes sure we keep moving on our goal to see 1000 waterfalls. We found two in North Carolina today.
Anyway, if you love what you do, it don’t much feel like work.
“If A equals success, then the formula is A equals X plus Y and Z, with X being work, Y play, and Z keeping your mouth shut” Albert Einstein
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 8:30 pm
Chris,
Although I can’t say, “I know what
you mean.” I can say that I understand
all about burying yourself in work as a
distraction.
I’ve made it through tough times with my
work to keep me sane. So I hear you.
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Osman Quddus on January 8th, 2010
Hey Jason, and all others,
I am in that stage right now where I am trying to find the correct balance in life. I am married with children, am applying to a Master’s program in Social Work, am trying to have a major breakthrough in my business, am working on my own fitness, trying to get certified as a fitness trainer, as well as trying to establish a fitness bootcamp business, and working on some public speaking projects. These are just the major projetcs! LOL
I dont know if that qualifies me as a workaholic, but I do admit, it can really be tricky to juggle all of that.
Jason, I think I will have to hunt down that book on time management or some other good book.
Feel free to advise… and that goes for everyone.
Osman
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Jason Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 8:31 pm
Osman, I wish I remembered what that
Dan Kennedy book was called.
Maybe he only has the one
on time management?
Well worth it. I think it still sells
for dirt cheap. It’s like pocket book
sized.
Maybe someone here has it on their
shelf?
How about it guys and gals?
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Peter on January 8th, 2010
Jason,
Someone famous once said something like “there is no such thing as living a life in balance” and i tend to agree. If we were to have the so called total balance, life wud be extremely boring and i dare suggest very little wud be achieved. I rather like to focus more on what my core values are, see if what I am doing meets with them and if so, go hard.
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Jason Reply:
January 9th, 2010 at 10:05 pm
Peter,
That’s an interesting way to look at it.
I guess it’s like walking, if you were always
in balance you would never move at all.
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Wayne Wu on January 8th, 2010
Hey Jas,
Thanks for welcoming me back a couple of days ago. I appreciate it, man.
About two months ago, I set down a concrete plan to write one article every day. The results have been very telling. I’ve been getting more traffic, I’ve been converting more leads. And best of all, I’m having a lot of fun. This work sure is FUN! And I don’t consider it to be “work”.
I can see the passion you have in connecting with other people, and it’s great example for me and all of us networkers out there. Consistent efforts pays dividends – I aspire to a following like yours.
Wayne
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Jason Reply:
January 9th, 2010 at 10:07 pm
Hey Wayne,
No prob man. I like your articles because
you’re not afraid to say what you’re thinking
like that travel scam article you wrote a while
back… I understand your reasons for taking it
down… but still… I love the controversy.
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Adam Haider on January 8th, 2010
Ah.. The ‘Workaholic Syndrome’ — I’m guilty of having this myself.
We have always grown up with the notion that the key to success is in developing skills. The more skills a person develops and acquires the better quality of work they get. The one problem we are faced with, is that most people hate their jobs which stop them from developing those key skills necessary for them to succeed. The end result is that they spend less time on their work because they are not passionate about it enough.
I use to think being a workaolic was a bad thing, but when you think about it. All the great achievers who were successful at anything whether it be actors, musicians, writers or even athletes spend the majority of their time on working to achieve their goals. When you have a passion for something time does not exist. I’m sure you can agree with me, we share the same problem with working so much that the dishes pile up.. I sometimes even forget to eat.
The great thing about being a workaholic is that you don’t have to turn into a zombie in order to be passionate about what you do, all you need to do is have that desire and commitment or do what most people do and outsource tasks to other people.
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Jason Reply:
January 9th, 2010 at 10:10 pm
Evening Adam,
I think Ayn Rand would agree with you.
It seems like those who are labeled “selfish” or
“workaholics” seem to get more done for mankind
than anyone else…. but I wouldn’t want to stir up
that argument.
I’m sure I would have a whole slew of new comments
to attend to. lol.
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Osman Quddus on January 8th, 2010
Hey thanks for the book title Tommy D.
And Peter, thanks for the feedback. You are right, balance does sound kind of boring.
However, balance and core values dont have to clash with one another. On the contrary, the are very suplemental to each other.
We try to balance only those things which are based on our core values in the first place. Anything outside of that doesnt even come in to the picture… it shouldnt be in one’s life to have to balance.
In this way, and on a practical basis, balance plays out very differently for each individual.
Also, sometimes people get the wrong notion that balance means giving equal weight to every aspect of one’s life. This is very far from the truth. Balance doesnt mean 50/50 or 25/25/25/25 etc.
Rather, in a nutshell, balance means giving everything its DUE weight and attention. For example, your wife and kids have a right upon you, your job has a right upon you, your business has a right upon you, your own body and health have a right upon you. Those things that matter in your life all have a right upon you.
It is our duty to try and fulfill the rights of each in accordance to the amount of priority they hold in our life.
In this regard, imbalance would mean, for example, that you get so caught up in your business that it starts interfering in your marital life or it starts to take the much-needed attention away from your kids, pr your health suffers as a result, etc.
Of course we must weigh out and prioritize our values in accordance to what has most importance for us at any given time. However, no one aspect of our life should thrive at the cost of other core values of ours.
And that is my 2 cents folks. Sorry for the long post. Tommy and Peter, and of course, Jason, thanks again.
Osman
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Jason Reply:
January 9th, 2010 at 10:12 pm
Hey Osman,
Don’t apologize for your two cents. I like hearing
what you have to say.
I think what started out as a conversation about
work… is turning into a philosophical discussion.
Nothing wrong with that… just not sure which
side I stand on.
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Elmar on January 11th, 2010
Hi Jason,
Thanks for this great article again!
I really recognize myself in the descripotion your wrote about yourself!
I’m guilty of having the ‘Workaholic Syndrome’ (like Adam Haider said it) myself too, I’ve always had that ’syndrome’, but since I’m active in Internet Marketing it’s worse than ever…
Personally I find balance in my life by being maried and having children! They force me to have balance
Lucky me… otherwise I would not stop working cause it does not feel like working to me, it is such fun…!
P.S. Sorry if there are spelling errors, English is not my first language!
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Jason Reply:
January 11th, 2010 at 9:39 am
Morning Elmar,
No worries. English is my first language
and every once in a while I have spelling errors too.
If you don’t tell anybody they assume it’s a typo.
I know what you mean about work though. It turns
into a big game when things are going right.
It becomes more fun than fun.
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Hi J
Enjoying your work is the best situation to be in. So many people get up daily to go to work on things they hate, with people the don’t like and in conditions they cant bare.
As you know I recently wrote a blog post about how I balance my work and play.
Working in this industry is so rewarding, beats anything I have been involved in before
Dwayne
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January 8th, 2010 at 11:48 am
Hey Dwayne,
I liked the personal look at your day, you shared with
your readers. I think most of us would be scared to do
that.
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